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8th February 2019 6:45pm Upper Coomera


Women have been burnt at the stake for trusting their intuition for generations. They’ve been called a witch or a psycho for having this inner knowing.

The truth is, you can't get anything past a woman. We sense it all. The pain of our ancestors being persecuted for this incredible power carries through to us and sees us disconnected from our truth and trust itself.

This manifests as saying yes when we mean no, feeling disconnected from our bodies and not being able to access heightened states of bliss.

This evening will be a reclamation of trust. Trust is not an external experience that exists when someone 'earns' your trust over a period of time. It is a frequency we feel in the body and is located at the first womb gate.

This womb gate is the yoni (vagina) entrance. Our culture has us believe that the yoni is here to be penetrated but this workshop is hear to teach you how to sense her receptivity. When we're connected to the yoni she calls in what she desires, without being opened by force.

This workshop will help you remove the blocks you have from accessing deep pleasure and connecting with partners.

Our intuition is here to serve us. When used wisely it can create power like you've never known before.

In this workshop you will learn tools to

- Heal from past sexual traumas
- Connect to your sisters without toxic societal patterns interfering
- Love and worship your own sexuality
- Honour your wombs wisdom
- Access profound pleasure
- Figure out what is holding you back from getting what you want in life.
- Transform your uncomfortable emotional states
- Strengthen your nervous system to access deeper pleasure
- Understand your Pleasure Anatomy
- Create a kick ass Self Pleasure Practice that will change your life!

This workshop will run from 6:45pm - 9:45pm
Investment of $68 for new participants
$58 for women repeating the evening." rel="noopener" target="_blank">

Bring a towel
Bring a Yoga Mat - Optional
Bring a blanket or sarong - Optional
Bring oil of your choice - Optional

Side note: Many women have contacted me and expressed that self pleasuring in a circle with other women may be very triggering for them due to emotions arising and past shame from their families or ex-partners. Please be aware there is no pressure to self pleasure and that it may be just as empowering to come with an open mind and meditate through the practices.

Victoria Smith is a Sexological Bodyworker from the UK. She works with both men and women in her sex coaching business. She is a self pleasure activist who believes that finding true independence in your self pleasure can help you get everything you want in life and have relationships that work for the people and not people working for their relationships. This year she has travelled Australia touring cities and festivals with her Self Pleasure Circle and now speaks at large conferences and events about Self Pleasure for Success.


A weekend with the dark feminine

Winter Jade Icey 2nd - 3rd Feb 2019

The dark feminine lives in everyone.. beyond gender and sexuality. She is a force often concealed in the deepest layers of our psyche wanting to emerge. The keeper of death, transformation and regeneration, her alchemical nature turns blood into liquid gold. She devours the caracas of our outworn patterns into unwavering power.

She breaks in order to make.

The dark feminine is rage, she is passion, murder, seduction.. she destroys anything that is built on falsity, fantasy, flimsy ground. With her dark eye she sees all that we hide and rips away the masks of pretence with her obsidian heart.

The dark feminine by nature is wild. She is the bones, blood and earth. She is repulsed by the repression of our instinctual wisdom and control of our bodies. The dark feminine holds the sexual mysteries in her cosmic cauldron and invites us to explore the true nature of our eros- wild, irrepressible, free and deeply anchored in the ecstatic current of life.

The dark feminine teaches us that all life is a polarity of light and dark. She wants us to feel it, not just the digestible aspects- ALL OF IT.

She has many faces, Kali, Lilith, Inanna and the world is embracing her return to the light of our awareness.

This weekend event is open to all genders and we will delve into the dark feminine expression in each person as she authentically arises.

The weekend immersion will include;

* meeting the dark feminine within

* expressing the dark feminine through the body, consciousness and through interactions with others

*exploring the erotic nature of the dark feminine within

*shadow hunting- tracking the parts of your identity that are false, hidden or in the way of power and truth.

*activating the dark eye- being able to see in yourself and others what is shadowed

*a chance to breakthrough shame, control or repression around sexuality, expression or desires.

This weekend will be a mixture of self exploration, embodiment practices, group interactions and ritual.

It will be a deep dive with the dark feminine but she also beckons joy.. we are going to have fun with her!

Facilitator- Winter Jade Icely

Winter is a witch, mystic and wild embodier having discovered her magic as a child, she delighted in the stars and the darkness.

Winter has facilitated sacred spaces for the past six years with expertise in the realm of the mystical arts, sexuality and embodiment.

Winter has journeyed with and brought to life the feminine mysteries and goddess wisdom over the past five years. Her work has moved towards penetrating ideas of gender and sexuality and the spaces she creates go beyond constructs of duality, of him and her, heterosexual and homosexual to the deeper realms of soul, the singularity that connects us all.

Winter is a qualified social worker and holistic counsellor and has worked with adults and children who have experienced trauma, abuse and mental health crisis. She currently offers empowerment coaching sessions to clients working with issues related to sexuality, intimacy and anchoring the soul into consciousness.

Winter is passionate about liberating herself and others to remember the limitless nature of the soul.

She has a deep calling to bring forth the temples of the new earth, to create spaces that penetrate worlds, that merge spirit and matter.

For information contact Victoria

Session times-
Saturday 2nd Feb 2019 10am to 7pm
Sunday 3rd Feb 2019 10am to 6pm

Cost for the immersion-
Early bird $300 (until December 21st)
Full price $400
To secure your place a non refundable deposit of $100 is required. Full amount to be paid at the venue. To book go to


The (R)Evolutionary Love Weekend Immersion

February 15th 7pm - February 17th 5:30pm

"to dive heart first into love, knowing full well that it will hurt, is the most radical act a person can do!" ~ Nic Tovey

"Love is the felt expression of the evolutionary impulse, the immense and infinite force of the universe bursting to create itself through us!" ~ Nic Tovey

Today many of us sense a much greater yet untapped potential in our intimate relationships than what we’ve experienced before. We intuit that our intimate relationships can be a source of personal power, creativity and exquisite pleasure. We are no longer willing to settle for anything less than amazing, and rightly so! We’re willing to put in the work, but where do we learn the steps to this divine dance?

None of us were taught how to do relationship at school. Most of our parents were only able to teach us by their own example, and many of them had no clue themselves. We were left to work it out for ourselves while on the job, relationship to relationship, riding the heartbreak merry-go-round, and of course we’ve all screwed it up, time and time again, but hopefully we’ve learnt a few things along the way.

Relationship is a verb; it is not something we have it is something we DO. It is an art form, and like all art forms it requires a certain set of skills and talents, some that may come naturally and some that may need to be acquired and developed. But, as with any piece of art, every relationship is its own unique mystery, a blending of subject and subject which challenges the artist to stretch, to learn and to adapt in ways never experienced before.

The (R)Evolutionary Love Weekend Immersion is the relationship school we've all been waiting for.

On this 2 day couples workshop you will experience a process of deep embodied connection, with yourself and with your partner, guided by the four pillars of the (R)Evolutionary Relationship:

You will gain a deeper understanding of your relational dynamic and how you each participate in it. You will clarify your personal needs, desires and boundaries and understand your beloved's.

And you will learn and develop practical skills and tools which you can take home and implement into your relationship.

Some of the items we will cover are:

*The Power of Presence
*Attuning your Physical, Emotional and Erotic bodies
*Whole Being Communication
*Overcoming the Barriers to Intimacy
*Polarity – The dance of the Masculine and Feminine
*Healthy Boundaries – Consent, needs and desires
*Navigating the Core Wounds – Abandonment & Rejection
*Self Love and moving from Shame
*The Art of Conflict
And much, much more

The (R)Evolutionary Love Weekend Immersion is open to couples of all orientations and relationship styles.

If you are unsure if you want to commit to the entire weekend there is a taster event on the Friday evening where you will be able to gain some experience and sign up for the weekend if space is available.

If you sign up for the weekend you have a complimentary pass for the Evening Taster.

About Nic Tovey
Drawing from a decade of experience counselling and coaching hundreds of men, women and couples, along with my training with some of the worlds great relationship therapists such as Esther Perel, Terry Real and John Gottman, blended with my extensive experience in Tantra and Sacred Sexuality, and of course, backed up with a substantial relationship resume with plenty of mistakes and successes, I will journey with you both along your (R)Evolutionary path.


$60 per couple

$550 per couple - FIRST 3 COUPLES ONLY

$600 per couple - NEXT 3 COUPLES

$650 per couple