Sydney Self Pleasure Circle


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Ladies I'm back in Sydney and super excited to bring more Self Pleasure Juiciness. If you're curious about the Self Pleasure Circles join me at the Mind Body Spirit Festival located at International Convention Center, Darling Harbour to hear me talking about Self Pleasuring for Success. I'll be talking on:

Thursday 4th October - 5:30pm
Friday 5th October - 4:00pm
Sunday 7th October - 1:00pm

The workshop will be held on Saturday 6th October at 6:30pm and is for both women who have experienced the self pleasure circle before and those who have never tried it.

This evening will be an exploration in to the ancient wisdom of the women who came before us and an opportunity to come home to our bodies that are full of pleasure waiting to be awakened.

Self Pleasure is meditation in movement, by deepening our connection to our life force energy we can start to transcend through triggers and challenges from the past and move into potent feminine flow that allows for us to achieve our life goals and engage in fulfilling relationships.

During our time together we will journey:
- Dropping into our womb space
- Connecting to the ecstatic current of creativity
- Healing past triggers and traumas
- Creating harmonious relationships
- Understanding pleasure anatomy
- Removing shame and taboo
- Establishing true sisterhood
- Discovering the power of our life force energy and how it can change our existence

This workshop will run from 6:30pm - 9:30pm Tickets for the event are available at Investment of $68

Bring a towel
Bring a Yoga Mat - Optional
Bring a blanket or sarong - Optional
Bring oil of your choice

Side note: Many women have contacted me and expressed that self pleasuring in a circle with other women may be very triggering for them due to emotions arising and past shame from their families or ex-partners. Please be aware it is not mandatory to masturbate or be naked in this workshop and that it may be just as empowering to come with an open mind and observe your thoughts through the practices.

Victoria Smith is a Sexological Bodyworker from the UK. She works with both men and women in her sex coaching business. She is a self pleasure activist who believes that finding true independence in your self pleasure can help you get everything you want in life and have relationships that work for the people and not people working for their relationships.


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4 Week Self Pleasure Intensive


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Self Pleasure to Create Change.

This is for the women who are ready to show up fully in the world.

Who deeply sense their magic and are clearing the blocks.

For the women who want to go deep into their psyche and emerge the purposeful, powerful queen they know themselves to be.

In this four-week journey we will travel the depths of our souls to remove anything that is getting in our way. Tune in to the ancient wisdom of the women who came before us and come home to this body that is full of pleasure waiting to be awakened.

It takes 21 days to break a habit, and this programme will eliminate all that stands in your way. Whether you want to clear money blocks, relationship patterns, anxiety, pleasure dysfunctions, traumas or career pathways. It is all possible once you’ve learnt how to harness that potent life force energy that riles inside of you.

Over the 4 weeks we will cover:

The passage of emotional synergy.

Creating awareness around the repetitive thought patterns that disrupt our flow. We will follow our triggers back to orgasmic bliss by transcending the perception of the emotion evoked in our bodily sensations. This odyssey radically enhances all relationships in our lives.

The womb initiation

All creation materialises from the womb space. To access this portal of intuition and manifestation, we must shed the striving. We can do so by connecting to the subtleties that the womb offers us, allowing us to flow with ease and appreciation through life.

The sister connection

Betrayal, competition and judgement are common occurrence amongst women of all ages. But deep down there is a longing for connection, love and celebration of all our differences. As we construct our ideals on what sisterhood means to us we will expel past wounding and drop into a new paradigm of relating through unity. It is here we will re-encounter our sex education via a deep dive into our pleasure anatomy.

The erotic freedom prayer.

There is a magic that happens in the body when we let go of the analytical mind and step into the transcendental space of the quantum field. The universe speaks to us, language becomes more than the spoken word. Only when we completely let go and surrender to the subconscious mind can we create change in this realm we’ve come to know as home.

This programme is open to graduates of the self pleasure circle as well as women who have never attended a circle.

Early bird price of $320 is available until Friday 14th September
Full admission is $350

Expansive Relating 4 Week Couple Date Nights


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Friday 19th October

Friday 26th October 

Friday 2nd November 

Friday 9th November

6:30pm to 9:30pm Upper Coomera 

Expansive Relating. 4 week Couple Date Nights

Expansive Relating for a Created Life.

Connection to self and connection to others are the foundations of a happy healthy life. 

Relationships don't need to be so serious. I often hear people say 'Relationships take work'. Danny and I believe that 'Relationships should be fun, not work'. 

This course will help you have the connection you desire with the beloved person you share your time with. Helping you change habitual patterns, seperate from past stories of sabotage and create strong soulful connection through the basics of transparent relating.

The dark ages are over, we no longer require a partner to survive. We are in a state of thriving with the luxury of journeying through life with a partner from a place of joy. Yet a lot of old paradigm notions such as codependency, jealousy, control, and insecurity stand in the way of that joy. Our intention is to share with you the essence love and how to show up in that love in every moment.

This four week programme delves into what it takes to make a created life together. 

Communication, Growth, Play, Sexual Connection.

Week One: Communication.

Learn to communicate what you desire. 4 simple tools of confrontation. How to show up in your vulnerability without loosing yourself.

Deepen your experience of what love is. How to feel the joys of relating through all the ups and down. 

How to authentically express your love and gratitude everyday.

This workshop will give you on going practices to keep the fire burning.

Week Two: Growth.

Your relationship is a separate entity. Start treating it like one. 

We can feel all the spectrum of human emotions without purging them on to one another once we start to be autonomous beings.

Your relationship is a strong container that holds you up. It can hold anything you throw at it as long as you allow it to flow and move. Love must flow and move to be experienced. As soon as love is stagnant, it becomes attachment. This week helps you discover how to gain the most growth out of your relating, so that you can feel stimulated and safe simultaneously.

Week Three: Play.

Probably the most important week of all. PLAY. Life can often look like a really long ‘to do’ list of chores and to get some rest from that, we indulge in TV, phones, laptops and tablets. When we do this we numb out, escape reality, avoid and disconnect. When we play, we become engaged in life. We are energised from connection and we are living in the present moment. And when we are present, we can connect. This week will be filled with games and learning how to drop into our inner child to feel the joy that flows between you and your beloved.

Week Four: Sexual Connection.

In the moments of stillness between play, growth and communication we can feel sexual energy. That illusive current with potent power. Our strongest life force energy that creates life. How do we bring it together. How do ensure intimacy is alive and continuing throughout the relationship. This evening will be an opportunity to dive into tantric practices to keep the spark alive. There is no genital touch or nudity in any of these workshops.

This 4 week programme will dramatically change your relationship no matter what level of intimacy is alive in this present moment. You are welcome to bring all matter of relationship problems in to the space. Both Danny and I are  qualified in processing whatever is coming up for you.

Please note: The programme is suitable for new couples and long term couples of all ages.

The investment for this programme is $320 per person for the 4 weeks. $640 per couple.


Victoria Smith - Somatic Sex Coach and Sexological Bodyworker from the UK. Victoria is a coach, counsellor, speaker, author, open relating expert and self pleasure activist. She has studied tantra and sexuality in many countries and now resides in the Gold Coast Australia helping people have relationships that make them feel free and expansive. She believes that by integrating our sexuality with our spiritual practices we can achieve anything in life.

Daniel Hansen - Mens Coach, Author and Carpenter by trade, Danny can relate to men from all walks of life. He helps men live an authentic expression by teaching them emotional embodiment.

Erotic Freedom Cacao Journey


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Wednesday 28th November 

6:00pm - 9:30pm

This November, I will be joining forces with the internationally renowned multi-instrumentalist, music therapist and kundalini/white tantra practitioner Jay Hoad and his partner Nicole Tretiakov. Bringing you the The Erotic Freedom Cacao Journey. Combining my artistry of Self Pleasure with Jays shamanic journeying of sound we will ignite the evening with the expansiveness of cacao to assist us.

This evening will be held in the depths of the Queensland forest on private land (pictured above). We will be combining Imported mayan cacao with shamanic sound healing, meditation, white tantra, rife frequencies, breathwork, self touch and ending with a fire ceremony. Some huge heavy beats, incredible sounding didgeridoos and various instruments from around the world, and a bit more of a sexy electro edge to this one.

You are invited to move and dance with the option of incorporating genital touch, allowing for your Self Pleasure practice to move beyond friction based pleasure. The body is capable of glorious states of ecstasy when it lets go of the mind and surrenders to the present moment.�

Clothing Optional
Genital Touch Optional

Please bring:
Natural Mosquito Repellant only please
Sarong - Optional
Blanket - Optional

What to expect:

The purpose of this event is to connect to the erotic innocence that is anchored into your heart. Our sexual energy is our strongest life force energy and connecting with that power can align you with your deepest truth and allow for ease and flow in life. Jay’s sound healings have the ability to balance chakras, emotions, and organs in the body. By allowing the sexual energy to flow in the space along side cacao we enable love to be present in its purest form. Connecting us to self while we transcend our emotions.

Erotic Freedom Cacao Journey Agreements

This is a Free-form Movement Journey

To maintain ultimate freedom we agree to the following:

1. No talking on the Dancefloor

- Please whisper off of the dancefloor only

2. No showing up drunk or drugged, no pictures, video, or wearing of scent (please be clean).

3. Respect the Space - Others' Space and the Collective Space.

When Approaching others:

- Listen for a Yes (get eye contact first)

- Respect any No (like when they are ignoring you)

- Respect the Solo Dancers' Right to their Space

- Hands in prayer at heart means: "I see you, and thank you for the dance (that just ended)."

4. No Touching other participants unless consent has been established prior to the evening.

5. No sexual acts with others on the dance floor

6. Looking with soft eyes from a place of curiosity and witnessing. (No starring or placing desire on others. The space is for erotic innocence. Staying in your body and process is essential).

This is a Transformational Space for Healing, Prayer, and Erotic Freeform Movement. All your emotions are welcome.

You will be asked to leave if you do not follow these agreements. There will be team of people ensuring you feel safe and comfortable at all times.

No dance experience required***

Thank you!


For Cacao Ceremony:

– It is often suggested to not eat for a few hours before consuming cacao for the ceremony.

– Drink a lot of water during the day prior to the ceremony.

Information on Cacao:

Cacao has been used as a health elixir and ceremonial medicine dating back to 1900BC, documented as being used by the Ancient ancestors of the Olmec people from Central America. Later it was used as a ritualistic medicine by the Mayan and Aztec cultures. All vitamins and minerals found in cacao are also produced naturally in the human body and perform essential functions, although these days external factors such as pursuing busy lifestyles and following a western diet heavily diminish these chemicals in our natural state. The intake of ceremonial cacao can be considered to allow somewhat of a reset to connect with our natural state of being.

Says Jay, “Really excited to be bring the Cacao Ceremony Sound Journey experience to the Gold Coast, they have been working so well in other parts of the world and I feel the people of this beautiful region will absolutely love this unique experience, especially as we have spiced it up considerably to work with the Tantric Witch.
We will be combining Imported mayan cacao with shamanic sound healing, meditation, white tantra, rife frequencies, breathwork and fire ceremony, some huge heavy beats, incredible sounding didgeridoos and various instruments from around the world, and a bit more of a sexy electro edge to this one"

People are often confused about what pure cacao actually is (as opposed to off the shelf style cacao or chocolate). Basically, brands of chocolate such as Cadbury are missing 99% of the 1200 active components of ceremonial cacao. Even the slightly purer blends of chocolate such as Lindt are still missing around 80%. Processing, preparation temperature, ingredients, and hybridization all contribute to this. The cacao we are importing to Australia is 100% ceremonial grade raw cacao imported from Guatemala and we carefully prepare the cacao with love and ritual throughout the day of the ceremony, combining herbs, spices and natural raw sweeteners to transform this bitter cacao into a luxurious delicacy that is somewhat of a silky liquid warm chocolate drink that is absolutely delicious.

The effect of cacao is known for generating somewhat of a gentle expansive feeling, assisting with deeper connection, unlocking spiritual channels, releasing negative emotions, and most importantly opening the heart chakra. It has been said that on a spiritually level cacao may show you the door but never push you through it, and when we combine this ancient tradition with the frequencies and pulses from instruments such as Didgeridoos, Medicine Drums, Cosmic Tone drums, etc. (Music Therapy) it really deepens the experience, the euphoric possibilities and the inner connection.”


Victoria Smith - Somatic Sex Coach and Sexological Bodyworker from the UK. Victoria is a coach, counsellor, speaker, author, open relating expert and self pleasure activist. She has studied tantra and sexuality in many countries and now resides in the Gold Coast Australia helping people have relationships that make them feel free and expansive. She believes that by integrating our sexuality with our spiritual practices we can achieve anything in life.

Jay Hoad - Hoad has spent the last 10 years touring and studying around the world, having now performed in 42 countries having major success with the release of his “Earth Music” Albums. This year Hoad is performing over 200 shows throughout 12 countries with his unique multi-instrumental solo show with 17 instruments on stage. He has released 5 albums of his original music, the latest of which won ARBA “roots album of the year” in Australia in 2016. 

Men's New Paradigm Of Pleasure Circle.


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Men can have full body orgasms. Men can have full body orgasms as intense as women can acheive, while retaining their ejaculation and life force energy.

The first step to awakened sex is to be comfortable in our body with the feelings that come up.
We will be adressing fear, shame, guilt, sadness, anger, frustration, and most of all, how to be happy in this lifetime.

If you want to level up the amount of pleasure your nervous system is capable of feeling. If you want to learn to fuck like a deviant demi-god.
Come to circle, Saturday 6th of October. $48.

(Men only. Vic won't be present. This is sacred mens business).